Is it worth it? |
Yes, no, maybe so...? |
Earlier this week, when faced with the dire reality of a situation that she, in all likelihood, created, Rachelle Grimmer killed herself after shooting her two young children when she was denied food assistance benefits in Laredo, Texas. We don’t know why Rachelle decided that death was the best way out, nor do we know why she decided to try to take her children along with her, but we can safely assume that she had become so overwhelmed with life to the point that the only solution, as she saw it, was in a bullet.
Tragedy often makes people wonder whether preventable measures could have been taken, and in Rachelle Grimmer’s case, the answer is probably yes. Though we don’t know the complete history of Rachelle Grimmer’s history and background, we do know that she had recently moved from Ohio to Texas with her two children in search of a better life, but had wound up living in a small, run-down trailer in a small, run-down town. We also know that Rachelle didn’t have the means to support her children. If she had, she wouldn’t have had to rely on government assistance for help.
Rachelle’s situation isn’t unique. Millions of impoverished mothers all across America are scraping together whatever they can in order to provide for their children. Sometimes fathers of those children are in the picture, sometimes they aren’t; however, even with the help of child support, many households headed by single mothers are still impoverished.
The solution to this problem is really simple—abort.
If a single woman finds herself pregnant, and she determines that she will not likely be able to afford to raise her child on her current income and has no realistic plan to increase her earning potential in the near future, then she has no business becoming a mother.
A woman who brings children into the world under less than ideal circumstances has no respect for her children. It is completely selfish to have children without the means to provide for those children. It is too idealistic to rely on governmental support during a time when the national deficit has skyrocketed and state and federal agencies are cutting back on welfare programs. It is just as idealistic, and just flat out stupid, for a woman to rely on help from a man who did not even think enough of her to marry her before knocking her up. (Many men today feel it is not their responsibility to provide support for “unwanted” children anyway.)
It seems harsh, but it’s true. While the perception is that abortion is the worst thing you could do to an unborn child, the reality is that it’s much worse to allow them to have to endure life under dire and overwhelming circumstances.